In today's
class we have continued with the assertive classes, today we have practiced
where should we act assertively, where not, or even when is it very difficult to
act like that. We had to choose a usual situation that happened to you,
describe how you acted and how you should have acted. I chose that situation
when you are at the cinema and someone behind you starts to disturb you kicking
your seat, I put that I usually act passively, I just wait until he stops and I
realized that it wasn't right to act like that, but I'm used to stay silenced
and I know that it is not right to do it. It would be another nice thing to
change in a future, but right now I don’t think that I'm able to do it.
In my opinion, it depends on a lot of circumstances, how people respond a situation like this. For example, if the person, who is knocking you, looks like intelligent, it is easier to ask him/her stopping it assertively, than he/she is a stupid bastard, who just wants to disturb you and enjoys, if you are mad at him/her.
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