In today's
class we have done an activity very interesting, it was in pairs and one of
these pairs where a worker whose aggressive behavior was annoying the workers
and the boss should have to make him change in a assertive way. I did this
activity with Janos and we had to do this activity in public. I totally forgot about
my shyness problem and I did it very well. It might have been the first time
that I wasn't nervous. I think that I'm starting to change this thing and
working it for the better.
This blog has been created by “Jesús Vicente Antón Martínez” in the course “Communication Skills in Engineering”, for the Aerospace Engineering Degree taught at the Polytechnic School of the University Europea de Madrid. Academic Year 2012-2013
martes, 30 de abril de 2013
jueves, 25 de abril de 2013
First "presentation"
In today's
class we had to do an oral presentation of our project for the 2050 aircraft,
it was just the introduction and the conclusion but, as always, I was very
nervous.
We started
the class as always and then we begin practicing the presentation. Every minute
passed I was feeling more nervous. But when the time came, I felt very self-assured.
The problem was when I had to start talking, I don't know why, but my nerves
attacked again. I thought I was very comfortable but… as I saw today, things
can change.
Even though
I thought I did it really bad, people thought that I showed our presentation
very well. Actually, I didn't think that they'd think that, but I'm glad they
did.
miércoles, 24 de abril de 2013
Another problem is incomming.
Today, we
have talked about how to do good presentations.
It has been very productive because it is an important thing to talk in
a good way to the public. Our teacher has told us that we are going to do a
conference in the auditorium. It has really set of my nerves, I can stand a
presentation with people of my class, but… with a lot of people that we don't
know… it will be difficult to go through it without any problem. It will be another thing that I will have to
try to change.
martes, 23 de abril de 2013
Nonverbal communication.
In today's
class we have talked about how important is the nonverbal communication and we
have done an exercise in which we had to make our partner listen to us just
with gestures. I think it was interesting and strange too. In my opinion I
think it would have been more interesting and funny to play a game called
"Los hombres lobo de Castronegro". It's a game where there are three werewolves
and many other characters. The werewolves are in charge of attacking at night
to the villagers, they need to decide which villager they need to kill. In the
next morning, everyone must do a judgment in which they will decide or not if
they are going to kill someone, trying to guess who the werewolves are. It is a
very interesting game in which you can have a lot of fun.
jueves, 18 de abril de 2013
I'm not the only one who is shy.
In today's
class, the secretary was Adrián Gallego, who as secretary did it very well, but
I could notice that he was very shy while doing it. Some reasons of why I
noticed that were because he spoke with a very low voice, it was also hard for
him to say some words even though he is very good at English and I know him
pretty much for thinking that he was going to be nervous despite he didn't tell
me anything. All these reasons remind me the day when I was the secretary. I
think that I was as nervous as he was today. But I think that he also will have
realized that it wasn't bad at all being the secretary. If someone wants to go
to his blog, here's the link: http://imreadytoflyhigh.blogspot.com.es/
How to write an email correctly.
Our teacher
has said to us to correct three emails and to write another two, in order to
improve our writing email's ability. I think that this activity might have been
productive, because most of the emails I have written were as the teacher said
they weren't correct. Probably it can be something that I will thank in the
future when applying for jobs, or writing emails in a company. Before of doing
this I didn't know even the half of the mistakes I was doing. It has actually
been very helpful.
miércoles, 17 de abril de 2013
One of my hobbies: Youtube.
In today's
class we kept working in the email activity and we also saw Janos's blog. It
had a funny video in it and it remind me one of my hobbies: watching videos in
Youtube. Actually I probably spend between one and two hours in Youtube a day.
I watch every kind of video, such as videogame, music, funny or even science
videos. Actually, my favorite youtuber is Pewdiepie, he is from Switzerland and
he has 6,6 million subscribers and increasing. He plays a lot of types of
games, but he most plays horror games. If someone wants to know something about
him here's a link to his channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/PewDiePie
It's a
channel I really recommend.
Manuel Campo's conference.
Last Monday
we went to the Manuel Campo's conference, which was very light too as the Pedro
Duque's, but it had another way of making it. The Pedro Duque's conference were
just questions, but this one, Manuel Campo talked us about the importance of talking
in public even thought we were engineers. It actually seemed very similar to a
normal class of communication skills, because he talked about a lot of topics
that we have already seen in this class, such as the importance of talking in
public or the importance of your profile photo. I was very asleep because last
night I couldn't sleep quite well, so I couldn't pay much attention. But
despite I was sleepy I took note from most of the things he said, it definitely
was a very interesting conference.
Pedro Duque's conference
Last week
we went to a conference where Pedro Duque wanted to answer some questions. It
was very light and easy to follow. Most of the conference was all those
questions, and most of them were good, but there was a question that really hit
Pedro Duque. It said: How did your father inspired you to do this work?
Actually the question wasn't that bad, but the main problem was that his father
died two years ago, so it was very hard to answer. I can imagine that must be
very annoying because when I was 6 years old, I remember that my great grandmother
died and it was very difficult for me to talk to people because I was too sad.
Actually, Pedro Duque was able to answer the question, so he was very brave to
do this.
martes, 16 de abril de 2013
Time to change the education system
In today's
class we have done the same things as always: reading the minute, the wiki and
all those things. We have finished Mind Map of how to write an email and we
have also talked about the nowadays system of teaching in schools.
Everyone
thought that kids in primary should have more capacity for choosing what they
want to be, but I think that it is not the point. When you are a kid, you just
want to be a football player, a dancer, a singer, or things like that. If we
all say to our children to do that, there won't be anyone who works in
engineering or medicine. So I think that the primary school is ok how it is,
but what we should change is the last two years. In England, the last two
years, you decide what you want to study, but not anymore in Spain, we have to
study all those subjects that we will forget in just a few days. I think this
must be another change we should try to do.
viernes, 12 de abril de 2013
I changed the blog!!
In yesterday's class, we reviewed my
minute and this blog so they could have a look at it. They thought that it
expressed sadness, when actually I wanted to express seriousness, but anyway I
didn't looked to more types of blog, so I decided to look for other's that
could express seriousness. I found this one which is actually very nice and not
that depressing. When they told me that, I could see the point about why they
were telling it to me, it was a very depressing environment for a blog.
miércoles, 10 de abril de 2013
First accomplishment. I'm the secretary!
In today's
lesson, I was the secretary, and it wasn't that bad! I thought it was going to
be very uncomfortable but, it wasn't. I think the worst part was when I had to
read the minutes and the blogs, because I was nervous. But as soon as the time
passed by, my nerves just disappeared, actually, the class was faster than other
days. I have really enjoyed it, despite it remind me my first conference, when
I was 12 years old.
I think I'm starting to lose my shyness,
something that as I said, is one of my main problems. Probably, the only con of
being the secretary it is the extra work, but the rest of the things are
clearly pros, it has been an experience to advise.
martes, 9 de abril de 2013
My problem attacks again
In today's
class, we have been most of the time working on the next activity (the
interview to Pedro Duque). We have been doing the biography and prepared some
questions for him on Friday. I am very excited about this conference, because
his job it would be the one that I want to work in, it would be fantastic to be
an astronaut, who hasn't dreamt about it when you were a child? I could also
have been the responsible of interviewing him, but my problem that i have
already mentioned of shyness just made me say no. Probably I will regret this
decision, but I think that the important thing is that you shouldn't care if
you fall, you always have to get up. In this case, for a future, I will
remember what I did today and I will try to do my best.
jueves, 4 de abril de 2013
Things we should start to change
There have
been a lot of themes in today’s class, 04/04/2013, but the one that has
interested me a lot has been the video projection. This video was about
creativity in schools and how we have been losing it day by day. It was a very
interesting topic which has made me think about it. In the video said that the
today’s education is being very monotone, they just let the kids study math’s,
literature… but they never let them study what they want, if they want to study
dance, let them do it, if they want to sing, to be an artist or whatever, let
them do it, or they will never be happy in their lives. Recently, I saw a video
on YouTube, where someone said that when he was a child, he wanted to sing, even
thought he wasn’t going to be rich, but he prefers to do what he likes than to
be millionaire sitting on a chair just wasting his life. I think that is one of
the things of this society that we should start to change, because I think that
the mainly important thing in our lives is to be happy with ourselves.
Getting to know the subject.
Today,
3/4/2013, our teacher has showed us how this subject is going to be and I have
noticed that we are going to have to do a lot of presentations, something
obvious because of the name of the subject: communication abilities. I suppose
that it is going to be a subject that is going to get hard for me due to what I
said in the last post, but I think that there is nothing you can’t do if you do
an effort for it. This situation has happened three times already in this
university, in the first term I had to do a presentation for calculus and
chemistry and in the second term for algebra and all of them went very well
although I was very nervous. I think one of my goals for this term is to forget
about this “stage fright” with the help of this subject, let’s see if it is
possible.
First day, first problem.
In our
first class, 2/4/2013, we have had to sit with someone that we didn´t know and
present him to the rest of the classmates. It has been an exercise where a lot
of people have had to forget about their shame and talk to all the class, I was
one of those because of I am very shy since I was a child. This time was very
easy because everyone had to do it and we were just 20 students. It has also
been funny at the end!! This class has remembered me an experience when I was
12 years old, in which I had to talk to 200 people during 15 minutes, I was
extremely shy on that situation as you can imagine.
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